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Promises kept are people kept.

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Promises should never be broken because with a promise, trust is also broken. Promise is a commitment. It is often said never make a promise you don’t intend to keep. It takes away the power of words. By no means are promises mere words to blurt but carefully sewn meanings to a relationship. Promises kept or broken or ignored reveal a lot about a person and many people consider them to choose between people they want to be with forever and the ones they would leave.

Empty promises are bad and hurtful but the worst kind are promises not carried throughout and left stranded in the process. Because once you start to fulfill a promise, it ties the hope of the person whom the promise was meant for. And if they are not seen to the end they can be harmful. The people who have to suffer these broken or abandoned promises wouldn’t have the courage to trust anyone anymore. It will difficult to trust people again if it only means to be taken for granted, to be not cared about. A broken promises breaks a person. Say no or you will try to do something but don’t promise if you are not sure you could keep it.

Sometimes the promise made with a good intention is buried somewhere in the midst of chaos. It is not alright because memory is wretched thing. It will instead bury you under guilt if you remember it. If the person promise was made to remembers it, you will be seen with those hurtful eyes all your life. No matter how hard you may try to forget it, there will be moments when it will come back to haunt you. So keep this in mind that promises kept are people kept and relationships kept.

“Some people don’t understand the promises they’re making when they make them,” I said.
“Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That’s what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.” 
― John Green, The Fault in Our Stars

You are the most important person!

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When was the last time you did something for yourself? Darling, your horoscope, your fingerprint, or the position in which you sleep neither defines you nor your future. Absolutely no reason to spoil your mood after reading them. You are the only person who can keep yourself happy. For once, stop worrying about your bad luck because it’s written in your horoscope today that you’re gonna have a fight with someone close to you. You already have a lot to stress about, don’t let these things frustrate you anymore.

Instead pamper yourself. Your relationship with yourself is the most important one and should be prioritized over all others. Do for yourself what you would do for the people you love. Self-care is important for our physical, emotional and mental health. Indulge in that little ‘me-time’. And before you know it, you will feel loved and worthy. To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance as Oscar Wilde said.

Have a spa-day. Get manicure, pedicure, facial anything which makes you feel fresh and beautiful. Buy yourself chocolates, donuts, pizza whatever that makes your mouth water. Dance around in your underwear. Sleep in and then later eat junk food in your bed while binge-watching your favourite series all day long. Take your dog out for a walk. Get dressed, put on makeup if you want and take oodles of selfies and photographs of the things which catch your eye to post on instagram. Go out and buy that dress which gives you hearteyes. Meditate to calm your nerves after a week full of tensions. Take your car, put on loud music, go for long drive. Take a bubble bath. Sit on rooftop in the middle of the night gazing at the stars. Watch your favourite movie and eat lots of ice-cream. Any of the special things.

There is never a good time or a bad time to please yourself. Keep in mind, that no matter what you should never be guilty about wanting to being alone or spend on yourself. It does not make you selfish. Because at the end of the day, you are worth it. It is your responsibility to take care of yourself and go to bed with a big ass smile on your face.

Stress-Buster : Music

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Woke up late? Your bestie was absent? Had a fight with your boyfriend/girlfriend? You’ve had too much of emotions for a day? And everything’s going wrong. There is one thing to your rescue: Music.

Here’s what I like to do on a crappy day. I get into my pajamas – close the door to my room and forbid everyone from entering – plug in earphones – and sing loudly to the music. The songs I used to listen to two years ago and scream the lyrics like nobody’s listening. If I’m in the mood I dance too for two-three hours straight. It’s my happy ending to a terrible day.

 

Music releases a mood elevating hormone called as Dopamine. Urban dictionary states that Dopamine is ‘The kick ass chemical in your brain that makes you feel and do happy things… whatever they may be.’ so you get the idea right? Apparently, Dopamine gives you pleasure and that’s what music does, provides delight alike to joy of food, sleep, sex etc.

Furthermore, no occasion is complete without music. Weddings, parties, long drives don’t happen without plenty of music sprinkled all over it. Even funerals at some places do with dash of music. So after a day full of bullshit, music transports me to this serene place which helps to get a positive outlook on life. Anyway, music has always been there for everyone since times immemorial, No?

My all-time favourites are :

  1. Breezeblocks by Alt-J
  2. Halo by Beyonce
  3. Don’t Worry, Be Happy by Bob Marley
  4. Rockabye by Clean Bandit ft Sean Paul & Anne-Marie
  5. Bubbly by Colbie Calliat
  6. A sky full of stars by Coldplay
  7. Don’t Let Me down by The Chainsmokers ft. Daya
  8. Caroline by Jon Foreman
  9. In the name of love by Martin Garrix & Bebe Rhexa
  10. Like I’m Gonna Lose you by Meghan Trainor ft. John Legend
  11. You will be Loved by Nicole Scherzinger
  12. Love Runs Out by One Republic 
  13. Let Her Go by  Passenger
  14. Happy by Pharrell Williams
  15. Headlights by Robin Schulz ft. Ilsey
  16. Stay with Me by Sam Smith
  17. Chandelier by Sia
  18. Two Sleepy People by Silje Nergaard
  19. Science and Faith by The Script
  20. All of me by John Legend

Music is a magic, an undeniable constant which can never be shook by anything. Music is one thing that I’ll always be thankful for in this world.

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